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Bar Mitzvah Venues Hire Guide

Planning to host a bar or bat mitzvah in London? Congratulations! Bar and bat mitzvah celebrations usually take place directly after the synagogue ceremony and include a festive meal followed by music and dancing. While bar or bat mitzvah preparations help ensure a joyous celebration, organising this special milestone doesn't have to add any stress to your preparations! 

Remember, that there are no hard-and-fast rules about how to celebrate a bar or bat mitzvah – some are small and intimate, while others are large and raucous. No matter what you’re planning, you can give your celebration more meaning by emphasising the significance of the bar or bat mitzvah speech, telling guests about the mitzvah project and inviting them to do a mitzvah, like giving tzedakah (charity), themselves.

Tips and tricks for celebrating a bar or bat mitzvah:

• Encourage the bar or bat mitzvah child to study Hebrew (ideally, they should be able to read their Torah portion, not just recite it from memory)
• Help the bar or bat mitzvah child find a mitzvah project they’re passionate about – it will make this special occasion even more meaningful
• When choosing a day for the party, consider the date the child will celebrate his or her bar or bat mitzvah in the synagogue (it’s usually close to their thirteenth birthday)
• Decide whether the party will be kids only, or if it will be of mixed ages
• Consider a theme, as this makes planning easier (popular options include sports, tropical/luau and Hollywood)
• Think about catering and whether the food must be kosher.
• Work out which style and size of the venue will best suit (perhaps you’d prefer to pay more for a great setting and possibly save on decorating?)
• Shortlist bar or bat mitzvah venues in convenient locations (do you need something in central London or further afield?)
• Organise fantastic entertainment (a live band, DJ, photo booth, caricaturist, arts and crafts for small children at the party, etc.)
• Personalise party favours with the name or initials of the bar or bat mitzvah child (think t-shirts, beach towels, sports caps, etc.)
• Honour the parents, grandparents or another special guest by having them bless the wine and challah, either in the synagogue or at the start of the party

What is a typical gift for a Bar Mitzvah?

Traditional gifts given for a bar or bat mitzvah include religious or educational books, religious items, gift certificates or money. Monetary gifts in multiples of 18 have become very popular for bar and bat mitzvahs as they’re considered particularly lucky. If the bat mitzvah girl is to begin lighting Shabbat candles after this day, her parents or grandparents will often give her a pretty candlestick. For a boy, his parents or grandparents might give him his first set of tefillin.

FAQs about Bar Mitzvah Venues in London

How much does it cost to hire a Bar Mitzvah venue in London?

According to the data on Tagvenue, when hiring a venue for this special day, expect to pay anywhere between £975 to £6600+ per evening. Many venues which offer catering options, such as restaurants, bars, banquet halls, etc. may charge per person with prices ranging from £50 to £160 per person. But don’t hesitate to ask venue managers for discounts, as well as Bar/Bat Mitzvah packages that come with different pricing, depending on what’s included in the package offer. (All data from Tagvenue.com.)

Where in London can I find the best Bar Mitzvah Venues?

You can find an array of fantastic bar mitzvah venues in different styles and settings within the central areas of London - Soho, Mayfair, Covent Garden, Marylebone and within the City of London. As a bonus, you’ll get great access to public transportation which is the key to hosting a successful event because people won’t have any trouble getting to the venue!

What equipment do I need to organise a Bar Mitzvah?

We recommend checking whether your first-choice venue has PA systems, as well as speakers and microphones on offer, as these may come in handy u during the event. If you want to add some extra flair, you can also check for artificial lighting, led video screens, glow furniture, drapings, and more. Just be aware that these items may come with additional costs.

How much does it cost to organise Bar Mitzvah in London?

Bar/Bat Mitzvahs are often called mini-weddings for a reason! The cost of the ceremony is typically determined by factors such as the number of guests, the venue rental, and any additional services that you might need. In London, the average cost is £50,000. However, if this number sounds high to you, know that you can still have a Bar/Bat Mitzvah for a few thousand pounds. At Tagvenue, you'll find all the great venues in a flash—simply adjust the filters on our search page to see different price ranges.

What are some affordable Bar Mitzvah venues in London?

Here are a few affordable venues recommended by our users:

• King Solomon Hotel - This spacious ground-floor room is perfect for a Bar Mitzvah. It accommodates 100 to 120 people and is available for £500 per day on a dry hire basis. It’s located in Golders Green just a few stops from central London on the Northern Line, and offers excellent transport links and free onsite parking. Kosher catering is available.
• Club Rooms - Located in Edmonton, this versatile venue accommodates 80 to 100 people with a hire fee starting at £450 per day. The venue includes a main hall, lounge, and small bar, all connected to a large terrace. Kosher catering is available.
• The Glebelands Private Members Club - This exclusive venue in North Finchley accommodates 120 to 150 people for £150 per hour. The hire includes free parking for 50 cars. External kosher catering will be required.

How to organise a Bar Mitzvah at a hired venue?

Organising a successful bar mitzvah involves several key steps:

• Book a venue that can accommodate your guest list and has the necessary facilities, such as a stage for speeches and a dance floor. 
• Arrange for kosher catering, either through the venue’s in-house services or an external kosher caterer. Plan the menu to include a variety of options for guests and accommodate dietary restrictions.
• Choose a theme and coordinate decorations, such as centrepieces, table settings, and banners. Consider traditional elements like blue and white colour schemes or personalised touches that reflect the Bar Mitzvah boy’s interests.
• Book entertainment, such as a DJ, band, live performers, or interactive activities to keep guests engaged.
• Organise the Bar Mitzvah boy’s speech and any other family speeches or presentations. Arrange for a microphone and sound system to ensure everyone can hear the speeches clearly.
• Prepare party favours for guests to take home as a memento of the celebration. Consider personalised items like kippot, keychains, mugs, or custom-made sweets.

What catering options are available at Bar Mitzvah venues in London?

Many venues in London offer in-house kosher catering from experienced chefs. If you have a specific kosher caterer in mind or prefer a venue without in-house catering, many locations will also allow you to bring in an external caterer. It's important to consult with the venue regarding their policies on external catering and any additional requirements they might have for using outside vendors. Regardless of which option you choose, both are good quality options that adhere strictly to kosher dietary guidelines, offering a variety of menus to choose from.